Category Archives: Stepping Out

Six Alternative to “Run Screaming!”

Several weeks ago, a FaceBook friend asked other stepmoms what advice she should give a friend contemplating a new relationship with a single dad.  Of course, several people gave the inevitable response:  “Run screaming. As fast as you can. In … Continue reading

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My Letter to Mom Brady On StepFamiles Day

Hello Mom Brady, I am a mom and stepmom who grew up eagerly watching the Brady Bunch whenever I had the chance (which was not nearly as often as I wanted because I grew up in Africa and only saw … Continue reading

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From Grief to Acceptance in Stepfamily Life

Anyone who’s taken a high school or college Psych class is familiar with the stages of grief and loss according to Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. As the theory goes, when faced with grief, whether over a loved one’s or our own impending … Continue reading

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The Power of Apology

I picked up my son after five days apart. It felt so good to see his smile, feel the warmth of his hug, laugh with him at the silly, goofy new accent he affected. As we left, my ex informed … Continue reading

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Managing Expectations, Surviving Holidays and Asking for What You Want

For our our 6th wedding anniversary, we agreed to meet at one of our favorite restaurants, the New Deal Cafe. On the way, I stopped by the bakery to select a  heart-shaped chocolate cake for my husband, whose sweet tooth … Continue reading

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The Voice

Anyone who knows me knows I can go years without watching TV. How would I have time in between a challenging job, a husband, son and stepson, two dogs and two cats, a yard, two blogs and guest blogging gigs? … Continue reading

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Happy Mothers’ Day, Stepmoms

This can be a hard time of the year for moms and stepmoms. If you’re a mom, you may not even see your kids on mother’s day, depending on the whims of the custody gods. And your day may not … Continue reading

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Friendly, not friends. Business, not personal.

A few months ago, I read about a mom or stepmom who regularly vacations with the ex and stepmom. Or it might have been with the biomom and her new hubby; I don’t remember–not that it matters very much. Any … Continue reading

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What Are You Giving Up for Lent?

While I didn’t grow up with the religious tradition of giving up something for Lent, the annual time of sacrifice and simplicity some Christian’s practice, I see it all around me at this time of the year. This year, a … Continue reading

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So, What is “Para-Kin” Anyway?

Last week when I talked about alternatives to “stepfamily,” I suggested that Para-Kin might be a little too far out there. What do you know but Debra L. Chernick, the founder of the term, took the time to write a … Continue reading

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